Tuesday, February 23, 2010

Look at the resume.

"Great minds discuss ideas. Average minds discuss events. Small minds discuss people."   --  Eleanor Roosevelt.

The resume says it all. 8/10 beauty, 8 is enough because she’s not a celebrity and she’s not with me yet. HaHa. Working. Simple. Smart. Actress. Do it all attendant. Do I have the enough investment to purse this fine young lady? Am I still a kid and wanting steadfast results? What made me decide to be in this situation right now? Are the signs not yet enough? Everything happens in time and in fact I was the one who reacted. Is it in the law to anticipate? MP is the lucky lady to experience everything nice. MP has her genuine character for now. Haha. There is more than meets the eye. I don’t know.

 

Mom never speaks and Dad only manages to smile. At least I heard him speak. I am not a mercurial hotshot guy who can do what she wants. For now, I just want to kiss her. I hope that will never end. It is very addicting, contagious and tempting. Eyes on the prize but at what cost? She’s 2 years younger and not yet ready. Every time and everything is best served random. I am writing it right now, I need to discipline myself. I don’t have any lifeline left for the tricky attendance. Just three days to discipline myself. Help me please. I am done doing petty things. 3 times is always a perfect number, more than that I cannot ask for more. I am envisioning myself for greater things to come. I want to do something that will not cover up my own shortcomings. I don’t know is always an exciting answer. It’s for me to find out. Someday will I be running out of pick-up lines? But I think from there is just the beginning. She gave me water but I never had the chance to say something that I wanted. She was looking at her own cup. Weekend again is fast approaching. Where will amazing happen this weekend? Am I suplado. You think you know but you have no idea at all. What made you say this thing on our first meeting? Is she saving the kilig moment and suppressed it with I think you were not there in Magallanes. I want to sniff every inch of white chocolate. I have to confess something with that Assumption San Lorenzo. To get inside the pants is not a joke. She keeps on saying MB. I have to confess something first. Let’s move on. I am contented right now and half happy. Do you get my point? Am I on the same page? Can I count the blue cars right now? Is it a better place to live in? God gave me reasons and certain things to do just for me and getting better excites me more. I have no reason to be a nice guy right now. What do I have to do? And what is in store for me. Why is next week always a testament? Office job is a sedentary thing to do and is not my bread and butter. I have a lot of things in mind right now. She helped me in a little way. She said that she doesn’t plan that much but as long as everything is in place and everything happens for a reason then she’ll take it as is. It requires a lot of getting to know stage but from the background, I still want to learn to apply it to the next. There are millions of ladies waiting. What’s the rush learn from Pacquiao and every smile will be worth it. I will miss Mrs. RT. Saying Goodbye is hard but we have to move on. She will always be there. But her presence is changeable and irreplaceable. At least I met her already before she would go to the other path of her life. I hope she finds joy and contentment in what she will do. I am proud that I worked under her system. I have to continue on building my game. MTV is gone. Life is too short. Live as if it is your last. Everyone has a chance. Everyone is human. We need to get along. I know in one way or another touching other’s life brings fulfillment in sharing the beauty that life has become. It’s the same as it was always been. Procrastination is not even a part of daily necessities but one’s character toward building relationships for different personalities. I will never forget you saying always be meticulous. Challenging the mettle of other officemates can bring camaraderie in what we achieve to do. I will never forget the moment she walked in front of me. I am very proud that this is the beginning of my life. The continuous chapter that fits the book pages of my own history is about to have a perfect combination for an endless journey. Blessing ignored becomes a curse. Every opportunity from love, work, family, career and so on should be reconsidered not a million times but once. No more questions asked but to do it. Just do it. Billy Jean drop my heart, she’s just a girl I can’t tell anyone. The moment I saw her again I will reiterate it again and again. From that corner of Good Earth there was something I cannot explain. Can I call a friend? What is my purpose? I can’t serve two masters at once. The Maestro Paolo.

Monday, February 15, 2010

SHAQ LOVE

From the time he arrived, O’Neal made it known he is here to support James. Before a recent game, O’Neal was chatting with James in Cleveland’s locker room when he dropped to a knee in a playful show of respect to the league MVP.

“I am here to serve your every need, King James,” O’Neal said.

It’s easy for him.

“I’m a realist,” O’Neal said. “I like to put it in business terms. I ran three different corporations my way and I was successful. But I’m an older guy who is on his way out so they brought me in as a consultant for the new, up-and-coming CEO. I’m here for him.”

“When I get more touches, I’m the most consistent big man to ever play the game.”

O’Neal is loving Cleveland and all it’s sleet, snow and rain. And the city is loving Shaq back.

An O’Neal bobblehead giveaway at a minor league hockey game drew a crowd of more than 18,000 to Quicken Loans Arena. His bigger-than-life personality has easily blended in among the Cavaliers, a collection of guys who genuinely enjoy each other’s company. It’s common for players to hang around for hours after practice.

“Everybody is close,” O’Neal said. “It’s the first team I’ve seen where nine or 10 guys go to dinner on every road trip. I’ve played on teams where this guy hung with this guy. LeBron gets everybody together and sends every one a little bbm (Blackberry message): ‘Dinner at Mortons, be there at eight.”’

Cavs coach Mike Brown raves about O’Neal. The 17-year veteran has been a willing listener and sounding board. He hasn’t complained about a reduction in minutes and responds to Cleveland’s coaches by saying, “Yes, sir” and “No, sir.”

“He’s been terrific,” Brown said. “He makes great suggestions. He talks to the young guys. He’s great for this group. The first words out of his mouth when he came here were, ‘This is LeBron’s team and I’m here to help him get an NBA ring.’ For him to set the tone that way was remarkable.”

Brown points at three lonely banners hanging on a wall high above the Cavs’ practice court. Two represent division titles, the other is for the Cavs’ lone conference crown in 2007.

“He understands what it’s all about, and that’s what makes it special,” Brown said. “Shaq has fit right in. Although he’s taking up a lot of space, he’s fit right in.”

Rejuvenation. In a relax and momentum situation



















 

Meet the parents. Now, what do I have to do? Why does it give me chills? How will I react? Why is it given to me? I wonder what I have to do. I made a choice. I will not look back. Taking a stand. It is free to dream. I pass now. Yesterday, was boring? Dull. I don’t even know. What she’s up to. I have destiny taking another ride. The first time I saw ms. J R in UM, I was in chills. The perfect package, from Zobel, south and Business Management what more can you ask for. The Friend is by the bay. I have the opportunity not to pass up. Smile muna? Ayaw ko. What the hell was that? A simple grad picture but then it takes two to tango. What hinders, prevents and holding back? Cause you’re all I want. You’re all I need. You’re everything. Life goes on. 23 and 21 can be a perfect combination. She moved me. You tell me how couldn’t be any better. The date was fun and high school. I shared something and she wanted an answer. But she answers street style. She thinks I am the nice guy. I am no saint. Haha^ Staying away from the question leaves me wondering. She has bigote. For truth, love and justice. May I find peace in what I am doing now? I want to kiss those lips. When will be the day the lord has made? I need to workout. Put myself in a perfect ply metrics and conditioning. Commissary and Canister are the new words. The time traveler’s wife keeps me wondering. She laughs and smiles. She was wearing blue. How come I did not see it coming? She has beautiful things but why does she strive for that. I know. It is the answer; Bonding with Daddy makes me think. It’s a good move. Resist at the first and hope for the second. There is a saying grab the opportunity but then again a lot of factors matter. Don’t be an opportunist. The path I chose makes me think again. She is so experienced. She’s a little girl with deceiving traits and actions. I know what she wants. I asked her before what she likes. Opposite attracts. The pressure is on me. What keeps it distant? The parents want to see who I am going with. Jut down notes. Let’s strengthen our core body. I have to limit eating rice. Heidi Klum wants black. Eating 7 egg whites is good. It’s not what you lift its what you eat. Inside is important than the outside most of the time? Mental over Physical? It boosts your insides. Basic, when you are sick you can’t lift. You have to give your body something to regain your strength. I want to explore the world. I want to smile. Fine, I will cherish every moment. 29 is the deadline then afterwards 2 months are just about to be smooth. I don’t want to pay the 6k. It’s so big. I can have 6 dates with 6 different hmmm. Haha. I want to find a business. I never became a varsity player. Honestly, I am every part of mediocrity. How come I know not to settle for second best? But what do I have now? Is there a difference between doing something and not doing at all? Kidding aside. When can you say enough is enough. As I walk to nonsense valley. May I quit? Am I the real slim cutie? Please stand up. Sa patpat na bahay, what are the expectations. I can’t explain. The hoodrats Is in town. Basketball in the streets. Gangwar. Mas malala pa kay Rj yun. There is a sense of insecurities. I believe that I can do this on my own. I have to work hard and believe harder. I want to enjoy life. As simple as that. I want to experience everything hard and easy. Rising to the occasion. Big time players gets big time plays. Down to execution. Last 2 mins. Tied ball game, game 7 championship finals. Everything is at stake. What can I do? I will take the last shot. No more room for errors and excuses. How will you know if maru likes you? Out of the blue can we do this? If you want to express your feelings then go ahead. Straight to the point and do things in perspective. Well, pleasing is not my favorite past time. But from the things I learned. I must not choose one. This is final after 6. I have 3 months left. That’s all. It’s about upgraded not about doing things all over again. It’s all or nothing for me.

Thursday, February 11, 2010

Is it a sign to move on. Turbid waters run shallow, Silent waters run deep.

 The subtle way of telling me just make the next move to other woman. Fine, since I told myself that the decision would be this coming Saturday. Don’t tell me to give up ka na? Haha. Then it is over now. I mean I have to discuss the things in my own instincts. Is the job worth so much that it can give you the financial stability just by leaving on an airplane and don’t know if I’ll be back again? Hope you find the right man. Timing, placing and situation, it all matters. I want to make her realize that it doesn’t get any unique than me. No pressure at all. I just want to make her believe that she is so special enough just to let any man get insider her shorts.

I want to be that man, (kidding aside) At least, I tried. Having a picture on facebook will be enough. Though the picture doesn’t paint a thousand words. Houston, we have a problem. Cute daw. Paasa. Hey hey! Listen come come. What is the love quote? Love and don’t expect to be loved in return. Just simply love. I knew this was coming. Today is Friday. Feb 12, 2010. What am I waiting for tomorrow? Did it happen for a reason? What is the purpose? I put in God’s hands. In time, hopefully she realizes that I found her in one corner of GOOD EARTH. The first time I saw her was in the DLSU ATENEO game.

The thing that will redeem myself right now is to be successful in life and to be introduced with all the influential people in the world. I don’t dream to become the president but in a low-key profile. I want to have several and often business meetings with Bill Gates, Donald Trump, Gokongwei, Henry Sy, Wallmart, Steve Jobs, Hiltons, Johnsons, Jerry Jones and all other businessmen and businesswomen moguls. I want to travel the world. Discover and explore. Putting up charities and bring back to the world and be thankful for the blessings from the God Almighty. I want to have breakfast in Paris. Research in the Vatican. Backpacking in Europe. Wall climbing in the Grand Canyon. Eating Chinese food in China. Enjoying sushi in Tokyo. Dining in Singapore restaurants. Having a monthly massage and facial. I want every hard work that is fun and full of challenges but I will not be a slave to all the necessities in the world. I want to learn how to cook. Own a hotel. Own a condominium. Own a bar. Cars don’t fascinate me. I want to build my own house from scratch and especially to have my own parking space in some areas in the world. Eat at my own restaurant and play basketball in my home court. PRL STADIUM. Enjoy hanging out and laughing my way in New York Manhattan. I want to influence the kids that hanging outside the streets will do nothing but stupidity. It’s either sports or study then reading newspapers on the side. I want to have a business for manpower. I want to provide jobs for the top 4 schools and meet every perfect girl in the world. Where do I start? Where can I see my vision? What am I doing right now at exactly 9:59 at E. Excel International February 12, 2010. I love reading. I enjoy and prepare for the present and not to think too much about the future. Today is important and tomorrow can wait. I have to be vigilant and wary. People will not give me praises. Everyone wants to be happy. I can keep myself waiting for something great. I want to experience every failure. I am no saint. I want to provide proper education and to lessen the no classes schedule. Give students a program for extra learning. The minds can work anytime of the day. No need to look in the mirror. Great minds can bring you to places and the looks will be just a bonus. For respect, courtesy and influence. Remove grade 7 and add another high school. The very important thing in life is education to have great social relationships. Spread camaraderie for greatness and contributions to the society for a better world to live in. If I win the lottery, how can you divide the money and make it useful. My life has been always living on the present and right now is the stage of a new phase. It’s too early to tell. I am on my kinder 1, grade 1, 1st yr high, 1st yr college. Not to worry about anything just yet. Life is offering one day at a time. Things change but you will always stay the same. Of course anything is possible. The direction should be geared up and towards success. I hate running in the morning. I love working out at night. Swimming must be a form of discipline. But it struggles me to do things that I want to do. Looking to the things that I am doing right now? Shit is this destiny. Am I laughing at myself again? I thought work is a different story. How will I savor this time? Does my mind want to right in this manner? Does she know the things that I can provide for her? Right now, I have no answers. Simple admiration will be just fine for now. How can my dad be a factor, when he himself cannot provide. I love life. How many days and month do I have to wait? Manny Pacquiao never expected to be this big. Bill Gates wasn’t sure if he wanted to drop out from College. Everything has his own story. How can I share mine? Gibo Teodoro po. Naglilingkod. Ready to take off na po tayo. Bagong Pilipinas. What is Miranda Kerr doing right now? She has not replies yet. I want to shout on top of the building. Where do these beautiful women live? Can I find one? American Pie. Typical blonde girls that can give you bon and baners. I must provide for my own and make my lola and parents proud. I want to make her realize in a real and straight to the point impression. How long can she wait. Another week? I am so lazy every Monday but I am worried what to do on a weekend. How come I don’t want keep my butt stocked on this chair? I want to be productive. Someone for service. Am I playing the game right? Damn, who is the GRAPHIC ARTIST” or a writer who is waiting for his minimum pay? Geeezz. I am not sleeping. Unfair for my body at night. On Sundays, I can’t sleep. Does Mary Palmer know that I am knocking on her door? Do I have to use this useless strategy to play with my officemate? Let’s do this. Ready get set go.

http://shine.yahoo.com/channel/life/6-personality-traits-to-admire-and-acquire-576756/


I’ve written numerous articles and posts on difficult people, personalities and relationships: Everything from Manipulative Marys to Bullies in the workplace to people who break boundaries to toxic personalities.  Let’s face it:  In life, we come across all kinds!  As humans, we often focus on those who are negative or toxic leaving it difficult to appreciate those who are positive and healthy.  Seeking out individuals with healthy, positive traits, however, may do a lot of good.  The more we can surround ourselves with those who are positive and healthy, the more we may model those positive behaviors.

If you really think about it, once in awhile you come across a person who knocks you off your socks…legitimately.  Maybe they have a fantastic outlook on life, even during difficult times.  Maybe they are really humble, although they are extremely gifted.  Maybe they make you feel special.  All of these are good.

Below, I've listed some of the traits I admire most in people.  Although I could probably list a dozen characteristics, I thought I’d list those that seem to be the rarest or most difficult to find.

  1. Selflessness: In a world where many people don’t have the time or the interest in others, selflessness is a quality that seems to be less and less common.  People can be selfless in the time they give, the ability to listen, their level of patience and the love that they give.  Those who are giving and generous in nature have the power to make others feel loved, appreciated and special.  While those who are self-absorbed tend to do the exact opposite.
  2. Tolerance: Those people who are tolerant make us feel comfortable with who we are and special as individuals.  All of us are different, and many of us have quirks and idiosyncrasies.  After all, these differences make the world go round.  Having the ability to accept people for who they are and not expect them to be who we want them to be is important in life, happiness and in the health of our relationships.
  3. Genuineness: Having the ability to be real, authentic and honest is unique in a world where we put so much emphasis on the superficial.  Feeling comfortable in one’s skin and being true to one’s self is one of the most beautiful traits one can possess.  To have a REAL relationship with someone requires honesty…it requires hearing and giving input or feedback that may not always be popular…it means having the strength to tell it like it is and to not be afraid to face the consequences for doing so…it means loving people for who they really are…deep down…and not for what they appear to be.
  4. Sensitivity: So often we are focused on what is important to ourselves that we can forget about those around us.  Those who are sensitive are often thoughtful, appreciative and loving, in a way that makes you feel understood, valued and respected.  Often, sensitive people are also self-aware, making them mindful of how they impact others with what they do and say.
  5. Integrity: Call me cynical, but I think this characteristic is especially difficult to find.  In a time when people will do things that are underhanded to make an extra buck (Bernie Madoff…can you hear me?), expose their personal lives to the public so they can be famous (balloon boy’s dad and any other reality TV mongers) and do what feels good in the moment without necessarily thinking of the consequences (Tiger Woods), integrity is a characteristic that is especially unique today.
  6. Humility: Whether someone is super-smart, extremely talented or drop-dead gorgeous, there is something extra special about them if they don’t come across as though they know it all the time.  Humility in those that possess extraordinary traits make others feel special too.

"Every blessing ignored becomes a curse"

Women are like teabags; you never know how strong they are until they’re put in hot water.


anger of an adventure is worth a thousand days of ease & comfort.

It's not about doing the things you love, it's about doing things with the one you love!

He came to make me fall, without the intention of catching me at all!

You may not be perfect in some ways, but many things can't be perfect without you

Distance between two hearts is not an obstacle, rather a beautiful reminder of just how strong true love can be.

Love is not who you can see yourself with, it is who you can't see yourself without.
Every woman is a mystery to be solved.
No one ever gets tired of loving. But everyone gets tired of waiting, assuming, hearing promises and sorries.

Wednesday, February 10, 2010

How far from now?

















































February 8.

So far, how’s it going?

The calm Monday is here again. Hehe. Imagine a girl who suddenly changes her mind. NEVERMIND. Let’s begin. If you are doubtful about the character of the person, look at his friends. It’s not true. I believe more of his actions rather than who he/she is with. I mean friends are just there to support and definitely to part of your life. The real answer is when you are in doubt look into how he/she deals with them in a matter of adapting to the character of the person he/she is socializing with and that is the answer of one’s character. Definitely. It’s an observation on how far he could carry himself well in addressing a person from all walks of life.

Continuation…

3 days to go. How will I play the guessing game? Is it up for grabs? I experienced this one from YC. Remember, he dated 1 guy. Another thing is that she told me everything and I never asked in return. Though I was steady enough. This thing can work. Hoping. She posted it and said thanks without my name. My name is embedded on facebook. Giving her a cake makes me smile. The look into her dazzling eyes along with the trademark smile makes me fall from my sit. It’s been how many years. I have been hearing the soulful voice. The moment the words would come out from her mouth, Dearest Lord… Teach me to be generous… Ever since I have a crush on her. The guts on me think twice every time I see her. It is so unfair. How come baby come. No am not. It is all about timing. I am enough. It shows in my resume. Check it again. The acts of it excite me in everything I do. I know indeed that I am my own fear. The group moves in different ways. I have to establish myself from the start. I am not searching for a comfort zone. All I want is to test the market again. May month is another question. Will opt or stay? Right now, I have decided. It is a matter of waiting game again. Look at me now? It is now or never. I am 22 years old and a thick contract with the likes of Rajon Rondo is waiting on the wings. I don’t see myself right now. If fate destined me to be here then again I have to ask the same questions all over.8 years and counting it excites and surprises me. Everyday is a new day.

Feb 11.

2 days. So near yet so far, may luck be by my side right now. At exactly 9:23 am. My thoughts and feelings are calm. The opportunist is doing something. I hate the thought of having her in the team. Strong 6 is now fabulous 5. I will not mind her. Asking silly things makes her reputation down grade and I want to step on it now. She will not give me money. Behind every great man is a woman rolling her eyes. The superior man acts before he speaks and afterwards speaks according to his actions. My mother taught me not to settle for less than my full potential and passed on the mind that life is most fulfilling when we make a difference in someone’s life. Life is the same as it’s always been. I think no matter what you have if you’re not happy with yourself and when you are not surrounded by people who have good interest in you then you have nothing to accomplish in life.

To design

To delight

To invent

To initiate

To know

To do

To have

To hold

To see

To believe

To aspire

To inspire

To inform

To empower

To break new grounds

To reach new heights

To simplify

To beautify

 

Be civil to everyone. Be friend to one. Be enemies to none. When life throws you lemons make lemonade. Can it be iced tea? Instant load. Instant noodles. Biglang liko. Drive thru. Fast food. Instant cash. Fast loan. Everything wants it to be in a snap. That’s why there is no progress in our country. There is a difference between production time and doing things not according to the plan. If the news tells that an army soldiers will be blown in the war that is normal but when the news tells that a hospital will explode then that is not normal. Everyone panics. Everyone runs hysterical. Everyone wonders why. Excuse me ms? I forgot your name, can I call you man. Speak what you have done then do things and explain.

What is the difference between a good secretary and a best secretary? The good secretary is the one who greets, “Good morning Sir” and the best secretary is the one who greets, “Sir… Morning na po sir” haha. I do not collect anything but memories. Genuine concern or people that you love can give an everlasting feeling. Mukhang kang letter A kasi you are not meant to B.

We have to rejoice in our sufferings as our sufferings produce perseverance, perseverance produces character and character produces hope.

W88271XQYJX – Once you go MAC you can’t go back

“Bill Gates was supposed to have said once “ I think everybody should get rich and be famous and everything he ever dreamed of so he can see that it is not the answer to happiness.

You have to study then get high grades. Apply for a job then earn. Save for the future and build a happy life. I know I am not her type. I just want to be a good friend. Talaga lang ah? But why I keep on insisting that I must be a lover and not a friend. It is very hard not to experience this feeling with a woman worth everything. The question is to love or not too love. I mean a friend is a friend and a lover is a lover. PUTANGINA? Cebu pacific pangkaibigan lang? You gotta be kidding me PATRON. Can you spell lucky love? Haha. Actually. I am in need of

Harbor view or Sumo Sam?

Will it be a barrage of excitement and an unorthodox feeling? For me, I have my own answers. I have my own idea of coming up with suggestions but sometimes why do I fail ahead of time. To remain humble and practicing the art of humility. Honestly, I am insecure of impressing someone. What happened to YC and now still happening to me at work? Does it mean that I cannot work alone and be fulfilled in making a difference in someone’s life? But I thought I want to succeed. My dream house is in the horizon. Indeed, money is not the object of happiness. But I believe the empire. My castle defines who I really am. The investment of it reflects on how hard I want to work but remains satisfied and has a smile on my face. C’mon patron! Stop second-guessing.

Villar v.s Aquino

Villar is the new man for mahirap. Noynoy is the new man for all ages. Corruption is the main issue right now. It is a never-ending story. Prioritize the infrastructures mainly the buildings, roads and fly-overs. Their respective platforms must include organized plans such as, relocation of the masses including the discipline and monitored routine for the public transportation. The Philippines can’t wait anymore. We are deprived of the natural resources that we own. The law must provide certain privileges for us to embrace what we are rich and proud for.

Of course it will be good enough that judgment day has just arrive. But can you please help me! What am I feeling right now? I feel so normal. Am I inlovabo. Haha. MP MP. Cebu pac Cebu pac. Drama effect can’t be normal. But I mean she suggested; does it have to be Saturday? I can never tell. This girl makes me who I am. She brings out the creativity in me. How far will I go? Am I going to finish strong or nothing at all? What is it all about to cebu pacifc girl. Is she the perfect time right now? Is this the same timing I felt for YC. I admit quite so. For now, good luck and have fun. Godspeed. To be continued.

Friday, February 5, 2010

Lets play the game.

Watch your thoughts, for they become words.
Choose your words, for they become actions.
Understand your actions, for they become habits.
Study your habits, for they will become your character.
Develop your character, for it becomes your destiny.

V shape body

1.
Bench
10
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Chinup
10
3
Rest
1 min.
4.
Bench
8
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Chinup
8
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Rest
1 min.
7.Bench68.Chinup69.Rest1 min.
10Shoulder1211Row1212Rest1 min.
13Shoulder1014Row1015Rest1 min.
16Shoulder817Row8

Read more: http://www.menshealth.com/mhlists/15-minute-workout-v-shape-shortcut/index.php#ixzz0eeHExdXQ

Thursday, February 4, 2010

The best in me















































































Top 6

 

MP – LOVES THE PLANE

PB – LOVES THE LORD TWEETUMS

JM – LOVES THE CRAZIEST THINGS

JR  - LOVES TO BE EVERYWHERE COWGIRL

NG – LOVES TO BE SOSYAL AND A SINGER FOR GOD

YC – LOVES TO ROCK AND BE FAT

 

CUTE GALS

 

How to choose the best President in the coming MAY 2010 elections?  A lot should be tackled in terms of their respective platforms for the welfare of the country. This time around before talking about education, the major pandemic of poverty, I want to give pointers beyond school. So here’s the list.

 

  1. ANTICIPATION OF CALAMITY

-        Controlling of the calamities is unpredictable. Beyond our control because no matter how ORDERLY citizens preserve our environment if GOD wants to punish us then we can’t do anything but to cope up the aftermath.  Year after year a lot of disastrous calamities particularly typhoons visits and gives chaos in our country. To begin with, the budget for the damp sites and creeks should be taken to action not for granted. The government should provide a monthly or at least a check-up of these major passages to the water tunnels. If we see OYSTER MMDA in the streets swiping the roads, therefore we should also see janitor fishes that monitor the creeks. I don’t know how they will do it but I think there is a way because it is the only reason and cause for our struggle of the environment. We have to open our eyes to reality. The least that we can do is to take care of it as if it was our own. For preservation not long investments”. As time, weather, things changes we have to adapt and adjust with proper discipline and basic measures.

 

  1. ORDERS IN THE STREETS.  Number 1 TRANSPORTATION SCHEMES.

-       THIS CAN BE CONTROLLED ASAP! AS IN! I BELIEVE WE HAVE THE POWER FOR IT not GOD. TRAFFIC? GODDAMN TERRIBLE IN OUR COUNTRY. BUMPER TO BUMPER. Filipinos at times lack common sense that includes me. HAHA. DEFINITELY and SURELY people who drives cars these days has money to spend in a WAY” of course it is not a matter of saving when driving it is a matter of necessity. A need for people who can spend some income for transportation I am not criticizing it is just a matter of practical thinking. IF YOU CAN’T AFFORD TO DRIVE THEN COMMUTE. THERE IS NOTHING WRONG ABOUT THAT. If using a car gives us unnecessary stress the we are absolutely human. We don’t have wings to fly. Looking back, in other Asian countries, my best favorite is the mighty but calm SINGAPORE. A million reasons to be envy about. The Manila rules should have a disciplined pattern, a pattern that will benefit everyone like having a monitor routine time. An AM and PM Shift with different schedules. Bus companies should gather and set routine schemes then implement these rules. I mean the owners of the companies have long been earning. I think it should be time to create a proper system for their bus travels and salary pays for their employees. I want a time interval before they get out of their respective garages and a limited time span of picking up commuters. 20 secs loading and unloading. MAX! No waiting, they should be left behind and wait for the next bus.

 

  1. ORDERS IN THE STREETS.  Number 2 Relocation of business vendors and a low lease or if possible a free business slot as long as they maintain cleanliness and orderliness in their spaces. Filipinos should know how to throw things in the proper places. Every spot must have garbage bins in place. 2nd, no kids should be loitering in the streets. They should be studying and playing sports not smoking or killing time shirtless on the streets. It degrades our morale as Filipinos and gives low market value. EDUCATION AND  SPORTS = SUCCESS.

 

PHILADELPHIA – They were bouncing on one of those narrow dirt roads, pushing out of the cluttered downtown of Port-au-Prince, Haiti, and out to the central plateau, the poorest part of the poorest country in the Western Hemisphere. The Philadelphia 76ers’ Sam Dalembert traveled home to Haiti over the summer to scout a location for a children’s academy on the outskirts of the city.

 

Sam Dalembert grew up in Haiti before becoming a first-round draft pick of the 76ers in 2001.

(Scott Cunningham/NBAE/Getty)

This was the country where Dalembert walked barefoot as a boy, where his grandmother used to invite his starving, homeless friends for a scrap of food and a night’s sleep on sheets strewn on the floor. This is the most improbable birthing place of an NBA millionaire, the against-all-odds story in a sport where those sprout off trees.

A mayor had delivered Dalembert a plot of land for the construction, and the Samuel Dalembert Foundation and a non-profit partner, Mediashare, intended to soon commission an architect to make plans. He wanted it to be a place where the most determined, driven children could aspire to come to take academic and art classes and play sports. Here, there were no roads. No irrigation. People traveled miles to reach drinkable water. Dalembert didn’t return to be a savior, just a loyal Haitian son.

“I know I can’t save the world,” Dalembert said late Wednesday in a private moment. “I know I can’t save my country.

“But I thought I could save some kids there. …I thought I could give some hope, where there really isn’t any.”

Dalembert’s friend Emmanuel was of Haitian descent, but had never visited the island of his ancestors. Apparently, this reaction comes with everyone who visits Haiti. No one is ever prepared for what they witness. How could somewhere so close to the United States be so impoverished, so third-world? Over the summer, Emmanuel walked the neighborhood in Port-au-Prince where Dalembert lived as a child, and his eyes grew wide with the poverty, the hunger, the sickness.

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Who could survive this? Who could go to a fine American university, make it to the first round of the NBA draft, to an eventual $64 million contract?

Beyond the streets of Port-au-Prince, all the way out to the central plateau, Emmanuel kept asking: “Sam, how did you ever get out of here?”

Here Dalembert was, 28 years old, and that question washed over him with this odd mix of wonderment and confusion, of gratitude and guilt.

“And it made me think … why me?” Dalembert said. “Of all the people … why me? All these countries in the world where they play basketball, where they produce players and this skinny boy from Haiti…

“Why me?”

He was almost sheepish retelling the story, because it seems silly to ask now. Why him? Well, now Sam Dalembert knows. For this earthquake, this devastation, has sobered him in a way nothing else ever could. Why did he get out, and make it big? Because they would need him now, because they need everyone. He’s never been so sure of anything.

This had been the most tortured, cruelest day of Dalembert’s life. He wanted to charter a flight to Port-au-Prince, but it wasn’t possible. His family has mostly moved to the United States through the years, but there are still so many relatives, so many friends. He used his platform to tell the story of Haiti, and he did an endless run of interviews and pleaded for support. In something of a daze, Dalembert played in the Sixers’ 93-92 loss to the New York Knicks and delivered 12 points and 21 rebounds.

The game had been over an hour now, and Dalembert had slipped on an “NBA Cares” gold shirt to tape a public service announcement in a side room of the Wachovia Center. When tragedy hits, the NBA is good this way. It had Yao Ming(notes) tape a message when an earthquake hit China, and now the league wanted Dalembert to do it for Haiti. Within hours, the PSA will play everywhere. It will reach the corners of the globe, and in a lot of places, for a lot of people, Sam Dalembert will be the face, the voice, of his anguished, suffering people. Hundreds of thousands could be dead in Haiti, and millions more will need help for sheer survival.

“We’re tough people at heart,” he said. “We deal with things the best we can. These people, they don’t do anything to deserve this.”

Dalembert left Haiti for Montreal at 14, moved to New Jersey to play high school basketball and ended up earning a scholarship to Seton Hall. His parents and siblings live in Florida, where his grandmother is desperate to know if her old family and friends survived, if anything, or anyone, in their old neighborhood isn’t buried in the rubble.

As a young boy in Port-au-Prince, Dalembert grew too fast to stay in shoes. Those feet blew through them, and so he would walk barefoot through jagged streets. He thinks about his grandmother, his parents, about the value they placed on education, about possibilities, and how they gave him a reason to dream even when such despair surrounded him.

Throughout his childhood, there was something he always told his friends that made them laugh. Through the pain, he smiled for a moment on Wednesday night and remembered the way they roared at that goofy, gangly kid stumbling with those floppy feet when he’d tell them, “One of these days, I’m going to fit myself into a suitcase, go onto one of those planes, get out of the country and have a better life.”

As much as he wanted something more, it still resonates within him that he never, ever thought they had it so bad there. “You would get used it,” Dalembert said. “You can be in a worse place, but have good people around you. You just think this is the way people live until you come to America and go to the market and the chicken is clean over here.”

Dalembert didn’t have much in Port-au-Prince, but he always felt like he had a little more. As he rapidly grew, he passed his clothes to friends and watched as they proudly marched around with baggy shirts and pants. “We didn’t think there was anything wrong. …We thought, we have … life.

“We were grateful we weren’t sick. We were able to eat at least one meal a day. As long as we have each other, as long as we were there for each other, that was enough.”

Here’s the strange irony about Dalembert: Few players in the NBA have done more missionary work with the league. Every year, he travels to faraway places like Africa in the NBA’s Basketball Without Borders program. He’s a basketball missionary. The NBA calls, and he’s on his way. From Africa to New Orleans for Katrina relief, he gives of his time every offseason. When they ask, Dalembert goes. He has been that way for his eight seasons in Philadelphia. He had his agent, Marc Cornstein, on the phone with NBA officials Wednesday discussing ways to raise money and awareness for disaster relief.

Dalembert has never been a photo-op do-gooder. He has always been there for the long haul, when the cameras aren’t there to record his every good deed. To say that Dalembert has always honored the most humble of beginnings with remarkable generosity is true, but sometimes his professional behavior could be less noble. He has grumbled about wanting trades. He has complained about his minutes, his role – all typical NBA frustrations. Dalembert played the part of the prima donna for the Canadian Olympic team, and they parted ways before the team ever left for the Beijing Games in 2008.

He didn’t try to defend himself and says simply now, “This summer, I finally tried to realize that it doesn’t do me any good anymore to point fingers at anyone when something doesn’t go right.” It was something about that trip back to Haiti, that question that was raised with his buddy Emmanuel that stayed with him.

Why him? For too long, it dogged him. As he has promised his friends, he had slipped himself into that suitcase, flown away and made an incredible life. All that, so he could come back again and again.

Now, Dalembert desperately wants to get on a plane, and get over there, and that’ll happen eventually. For now, he’s going to be the face, the voice, of Haiti for millions of people, because his feet grew too fast to find shoes, his legs too long to wear his daddy’s old pants. Someday, he’s sure he’s going to build that children’s center, but now his mind, his heart, is on the short-term survival of his people: food, medicine and shelter.

It was 10:15 p.m. on Wednesday, in this quiet room in the Wachovia Center, and Dalembert still had so much frustration about why this quake had to happen to a place, to a people, that never, ever stop suffering. Now, they dig them out of rubble, tens of thousands dead and a loyal son of Haiti watched from far away like everyone else. Why were they buried, and why was he an NBA millionaire? The answer will probably always confound him on some level, but this was too long of a day and night for guilt, for that question that chased him over the summer when he tried to make sense of it all amid the poorest of the poor in our part of the world.

Why him?

Now, he knows.

Nothing’s ever been so clear.

“I know what I have to do now,” Samuel Dalembert(notes) said. “I know why I’m here.”